내 머리 속의 지우개, REMEMBER

There is once that a friend of mine (a fag hag) was asking me a quite tricky question that i decided to ask all the Gay people here. I never thought about it.

We knew straight away when a lesbian plays the role of a top when she was labelled as a butch. Ain't it? So she asked me what is your label? I paused and try ti think about what answer to give her by searching everything i knew being as a gay, but it came out nothing but a piece of white blank clean paper.

So how about us as gay? Is there a term name for us being labelled as a top or bottom? Rather than asking are you top or bottom straight away.

or its that simple. Top and bottom.

What are your thoughts?
What name would it be if there is?