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ANXIETY IS LIVING HELL!!!

In this era of modern days, people tend to work themselves off without realizing that they need time off for a moment to stop and look at the world. I did. I looked at and realized that i have never looked at the world out there never as before. Things that i didn't stop by too look in the walkway because of rush hour, assignments, schedules etc looked beautiful. From the environment, people, architecture etc looked stunning and meaningful.

We all should need some quite time and some peace alone. I felt so much better. Practicing silence help a lot in terms of mind, body and soul. Never neglect that. If you do, putting a lot of pressure, sense of achievement, honors and etc would lead to social health problems.

Increasing cases of anxiety now happens here. Paper nowadays are also increasingly focusing on anxiety disorder which we Malaysian tends to say "Xiao, i'm not a mental problem." This time around, i would like to educate my readers about this problem.

Anxiety has a lot of forms but i would like to pay to this particular attention to this type of disorder because it is for someone that i knew are having this disorder.


hypochondriasis

The primary feature of hypochondriasis is excessive fear of having a serious disease. These fears are not relieved when a medical examination finds no evidence of disease. People with hypochondriasis are often able to acknowledge that their fears are unrealistic, but this intellectual realization is not enough to reduce their anxiety. In order to qualify for a diagnosis of hypochondriasis, preoccupation with fear of disease must cause a great deal of distress or interfere with a person's ability to perform important activities, such as work, school activities, or family and social responsibilities. Hypochondriasis is included in the category of somatoform disorders in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders ( DSM-IV-TR ), which is the reference handbook that clinicians use to guide the diagnosis of mental disorders.


The fears of a person with hypochondriasis may be focused on the possibility of a single illness, but more often they include a number of possible conditions. The focus of the fears may shift over time as a person notices a new symptom or learns about an unfamiliar disease. The fears appear to develop in response to minor physical abnormalities, like fatigue, aching muscles, a mild cough or a small sore. People with hypochondriasis may also interpret normal sensations as signs of disease. For instance, an occasional change in heart rate or a feeling of dizziness upon standing up will lead a person with hypochondriasis to fears of heart disease or stroke. Sometimes hypochondriacal fears develop after the death of a friend or family member, or in response to reading an article or seeing a television program about a disease. Fear of illness can also increase in response to stress. Individuals with hypochondriasis visit physicians frequently; and when told there is nothing physically wrong, they are likely to seek a second opinion since their fears are not soothed. Their apparent distrust of their physicians' opinions can cause tensions in doctor-patient relationships, leading to the patient's further dissatisfaction with health care providers. Physicians who regularly see a patient with hypochondriasis may become skeptical about any reported symptom, increasing the danger that a real illness may be overlooked. People with hypochondriasis also run the risk of undergoing unnecessary medical tests or receiving unneeded medications. Although they are usually not physically disabled, they may take frequent sick days from work, or annoy friends and family with constant conversation or complaints about illness, reducing their ability to function effectively in some aspects of life.

In order to receive a DSM-IV-TR diagnosis of hypochondriasis, a person must meet all six of the following criteria:( means criteria to fulfill it)
  • The person must be preoccupied with the notion or fear of having a serious disease. This preoccupation is based on misinterpretation of physical symptoms or sensations.
  • Appropriate medical evaluation and reassurance that there is no illness present do not eliminate the preoccupation.
  • The belief or fear of illness must not be of delusional intensity. Delusional health fears are more likely to be bizarre in nature— for instance, the belief that one's skin emits a foul odor or that food is rotting in one's intestines. The preoccupations must not be limited to a concern about appearance; excessive concerns that focus solely on defects in appearance would receive a diagnosis of body dysmorphic disorder.
  • The preoccupation must have lasted for at least six months.
  • The person's preoccupation with illness must not simply be part of the presentation of another disorder, including generalized anxiety disorder, obsessive-compulsive disorder, panic disorder, separation anxiety, major depressive episode, or another somatoform disorder.
  • elaboration from last point: it means that, it is difficult for the patient's doctor to determine whether the anxiety preceded the physical condition or followed it; sometimes people develop generalized anxiety disorder after being diagnosed with a chronic organic health problem. In other instances, the wear and tear on the body caused by persistent and recurrent worrying leads to physical diseases and disorders. There is an overall "vicious circle" quality to the relationship between GAD and other disorders, whether mental or organic.
So to my readers, slow down for a minute in life.

STOP AND SMELL THE ROSES

PERSISTENCE TILL THE END!!

With no one people i can turn too, i felt dreadful. I wanted too but still wanting to look with your own eyes of the news makes you feel better at least. You know what i mean rather than a third party?

Calls and sms flows in none stop yesterday but i choose not too answered or even replied them. One reason i don't have credits and even if i did have credit, just leave me alone alright. I just want to be alone. Don't call me up. Leave me in peace.

At night, i finally got to see it with my own eyes. I jumped up from my seat. I can't believe that i make it. I PASSED!!!!! FINALLY!!! WOOHOO~~~~

I was jumping for joy till i got stuck... least now i am in track with what i had planned. I'm finally in professional level. WOHOO~~ no more drawbacks and setbacks this time. My parents are smilling and my brother are happy too.

I called laugong to tell the good news and he said "Laupuo so smart arh?" sweat.....

Finally no dreadful law and section based with case law.. ITS OVER!!!!! woo~~ that is the most happiest thing in my life other than having my dear darling with me and also keep getting all the flirting around.. LORH!! (regarding my last post)

Words to share with you guys.

To accomplish great things, we must not only act, but also dream; not only plan, but also believe.
Anatole France

Never give up till the end my fellow readers.^^

NO UPDATES!!

SORRY MY READERS
FOR
NOT UPDATING MY BLOG!

The reason why i haven't been update lately was because of my adapter for my lap top has just gone spoil. So i couldn't update my blog as the battery life span was not enough for me to do it. Even i couldn't even log in to my facebook account not checking my favorite k-pop music and videos.

I miss my lap top. (T___________T) badly....

Nowadays i have been working in the student service department to earn extra pocket money so i can save up some for future purposes as I'm cashing more money out rather than in. With the exercise regime in the gym, the food intake to build lean body (food ain't cheap and membership fee), i found myself poorer.. HAHAHA!! So before i declare myself a bankrupt i need to take precaution measure.

My love life now are getting stable i guess. At a point of time sometimes i do feel tired. Like i want to stop it. Yet on the other side i want to be in a relationship as forever more. Its going to be a year soon. By far with my previous experience this is the longest and most stable relationship ever. Some moments there are suspicious feeling aroused towards him but i do know i shouldn't be as i have given my trust.

There are guys who are interested in me especially a guy i shall named him P. He is very nice person and i cannot avoid him every time. I could avoid once but not all the time as i meet him nearly all the time. I told him that i am in relationship but he is still wanting me like a UHU GAM stuck.

Now i told him clearly that we are only friends. Hope he will get into his head. Well... I have no idea how to deal with these issue. When you are not in relationship no guys appeared to you. But when you are they like thousand of flocks of guys coming towards you.

Have you ever had these situation before?? So cursed like that...

Oh, this update is from the department I'm working in... Time for me to go off now. TATA!!

JENG JENG JENG!!!!


Literally i was shocked to see this in my message in-box. How i wonder they get to my profile??? Saying all the words im sexy and that stuff... phwwt!!!

Sorry to disappoint you but you are not my cup of tea, dinner, lunch and even breakfast... not even 8 meals a day... HAHAHA!!!

Wonder do you all get this kind of mails in Facebook?? How do you all deal with this??

SAT IN THE CITY!!

I will like to introduce to you all a very funny show. Well it is in Cantonese and my apology if you don't understand what they are saying.

Anyway this show is called Sat in the city and revolved between 3 girls(actually male) name Hungry, Excellent and Handlebaby. Out of the three i like Baby. The character is so funny. Well i should stop now and let you all enjoy the show.



The funniest of all is this episode. I love how the script went and the guy at the end where his shirt was teared. Hahahah!!!!! Just hilarious.



There are more can be found in youtube.